Breaking UP Is Hard To Do
Life does go on, no matter what happens. Whether its a loss of a loved one, or the loss of someone you have been dating. Eventually, you will be able to get out of bed, go a day without bursting into tears and have a good time again.
Unfortunately there are no magic tricks to help you move on. Time really is a great healer and so the first few days and weeks are going to be the worst. Staying in and being miserable is a part of the healing process.
At some point, you will find yourself alone in situations where you would previously have been a couple. Going alone can really be uncomfortable.
You might not want to start another relationship just yet but noticing that there are other men/women out there can take your mind off your old love. Even if you doubt you will ever get over your ex, there’s little harm in assessing the competition. Leave yourself open to other options, take some time to heal. Force yourself back into things, and find something new to make you smile again.
Its been so hard for me to make changes, positive ones. So hard to go through days without tears. Yet, now I find I have reasons to smile. Life is getting better. I truly don’t think a time will ever come when I won’t miss what I had. If someone were to ask me today if I were happy, I could honestly answer yes. My life is very different then it was 3 years ago, lots of adjustments. Lots of twists and turns and excitement in it now. Three years ago it was pretty predictable. I still can’t get over the fact that I am dating 